A good moment
Tea is warm, the conversation is easy and there is nowhere urgent to be. Let the moment be pleasant without requiring it to become a permanent condition. Appreciation can include noticing the people and work…
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A modern practice aid, not a complete account of kamma.
What am I hoping to achieve? Notice mixed motives honestly.
What am I actually about to say or do? Who has a choice here?
Listen to what happened. Do not substitute your intention for another person’s experience.
Acknowledge your part, ask what would help, and change the next action.