01Short read · Beginner · 1 min read
A disagreement about a community event does not need to become a judgement of someone’s whole character. Name the proposal, explain the concern and ask about the part you may have missed. “This timing excludes…
02Short read · Beginner · 1 min read
Someone mentions a difficulty. Before rearranging their life, ask whether they want suggestions, practical assistance or simply company. An offer gives the other person a choice; taking over can remove it. Be…
03Reflection · Beginner · 2 min read
“I meant well” may be true. It may also be incomplete. A message can be intended as helpful and still embarrass someone in front of a group.