Kindness & relationships · 1 min read
Someone mentions a difficulty. Before rearranging their life, ask whether they want suggestions, practical assistance or simply company. An offer gives the other person a choice; taking over can remove it. Be clear about what you can do and respect a refusal. If the situation involves immediate danger, seek appropriate help rather than relying on a reflective exercise. In ordinary circumstances, compassion can be patient enough to learn what matters to the person affected. Being useful is different from needing to be indispensable.
