The second arrow is not a reason to blame yourself
When you are already hurting, being told that your suffering is your own fault adds a burden. The image of two arrows should not become another weapon.
Poster lesson 16 / 63 · Intermediate
The Three Characteristics
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Anicca concerns the impermanence of conditioned things. Dukkha points to their inability to provide secure satisfaction when grasped. Anattā means not-self: changing experience is not a permanent, fully controllable essence. This does not mean people do not matter. Notice how a mood changes with circumstances; respond with care rather than treating one feeling as the whole truth about yourself.